When Margie and Dan
Banks listen to the sermon at their Assembly of God church, they often fall into
a habit that's hard to break: He scratches her back lightly in a slow circular
motion, and she rubs his neck, sometimes twirling his hair around her little finger.
"We honestly don't realize we're doing it," Margie
says.
But other church-goers have found it so offensive that finally
their church, like many others, added a "couples section" for the "affectionately
gifted" — those who can't keep their hands off each other on Sunday
mornings.
"It was getting to be a problem," says pastor Dave
Towns of his church's "touching issues."
Darla Knabe usually sits with her 17-year-old son, and often
catches herself massaging his shoulders. He works construction during the week
and needs the relief, she says. But twice, the person behind her has asked her
to stop.
"It's hard not to be affectionate toward someone you love,
especially when your heart is so open from worship," she says.
Other couples go to greater extremes. One church-goer from
Tacoma saw a man and woman give each other "full-on back massages" throughout
the pastor's sermon.
"She rubbed him down from neck to glutes, and then he
turned around and did the same for her," the observer says with disgust.
A man from Boise says he finally left the sanctuary after observing
a man "playfully flip and caress" his wife's ear lobe during most of
the service.
"Why do people wait until Sunday morning to do that stuff?"
he asks.
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